![]() If I’m optimistic about anything it’s in the hope that the next generation of men will at least have the opportunity to be made aware of the “code” in the Matrix – that simply didn’t exist when I was struggling to unplug myself. It is dirty, filthy, work unplugging Men from the Matrix, but that’s the start. The global collective waking them up is the first and best benefit. ![]() The community advocates, Game gurus, and theorists of the world are going to lock horns over priorities, but the bigger pictures is making Men aware. We are the collective fathers these sons never had. Every time we unplug a guy from the Matrix it’s a group effort. However, just the collectivity of the global community gives me hope. I didn’t say the mountain looked easy to climb. I know the s of the world are largely the antithesis of the Meta-Masculine. We’re now aware that this Feminine Matrix is everywhere, and I think we all can appreciate how encompassing and pervasive it is. This is the Meta-Masculine pushing back against the Meta-Feminized. This is one world of men advising a young man about his situation with a girl acculturated in a world influenced by women for five decades. A global collective of Men advised this kid. I joined guys from Britain, Australia, Spain, Canada, New York, Los Angeles, and anywhere in between. Lets consider it for a moment: Just last week I added my voice to a chorus of other men from around the world to help out a young man struggling with his AFC problems. The genie is now out of the bottle, and for better or worse the information is liberating. ![]() The internet is to Men what the sexual revolution was for women. Where before there was a stigma of “not being man enough” just in asking questions and seeking relevant advice about women, now it’s been replaced by the ‘community’. ![]() Thanks to globalized, instant communications, a new generation of Men can collectively consider experiences and observations that were previously left unsaid. Porn is now part of the utilities it’s like hot and cold running water now, but moreover, so is the collected experience of literally a world of men considering the same nagging questions. I can’t go a day without having viagra or porn solicited to me in my email. In fact porn was only accessible by renting it from the back room of a VHS rental store, by magazine or pirating the Spice channel from cable. Remember, no Tom Leykis, no internet, and the “how to pick up girls” books were what losers ordered by mail from an ad they saw in the back of a Hustler magazine. We lacked the male-to-male social communication, certainly the global communication, to really bring common experiences together and form ideas from those observations. When guys in their 30s and 40s now were learning the lessons I relate here, there were no forums, no PUAs (formally anyway), and the phenomenon we call feminization and the ‘Matrix’ was at the peak of it’s influence by virtue alone of no one questioning, let alone being aware of, its influence. I didn’t own a cell phone until 2002 and never texted anyone regularly until 2005. There was no term for an AFC, beta or “herb” in 1995. It’s hard for mid 20s and teenage guys to relate to a time before the level of communication we take for granted today. I think it’s really hard for a generation of young Men to fully appreciate the progress that guys in their mid-30s, mid-40s and even 50s have made in their respective times. I also go into how things were before the advent of the internet occasionally. I just reviewed a ‘single-mommy’ story in an other forum thread, one that I learned from almost 20 years ago. Every time I consider the things I’ve written for the ‘community’ I always need to put them into the perspective of where I’ve come from and what I’ve learned in that time. In the starting of this blog I’ve recently been contemplating the last 6 or so years I’ve spent on SoSuave.
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